11 Easy Ways To Build An Unbreakable Bond With Your Niece/Nephew

Niece/NephewAre you a first-time aunt/uncle and you just can’t contain your happiness? Want to spend most of your time with your little niece/nephew, but always fall short of ideas on how to form that close bond with them?

Well, worry not! We have something for you!

Read on to know how you can make the most of this relationship and strengthen the bond with your niece/nephew.

11 ways to bond with your niece/nephew:

1) Have Fun, Make Memories

Happy childIt’s amazing to be with a baby or toddler and see him/her smile or laugh at your silly antics. Right?

Give him/her a reason to smile. Try to be his/her favourite person.

Make the most of your time with your niece/nephew.

Cherish the experiences: capture the moments, take pictures or videos, and take pride in treasuring this relationship.

How about a selfie to tell the world you are the coolest aunt/uncle to the cutest girl/boy?

2) Be A Good Example

Your little champion probably thinks you’re the coolest company to be with. He/she looks up to you, so do your best to be a good example and role model.

For instance, be punctual, well-dressed, maintain hygiene, respect elders, and never use profanities. Be a good influence.

3) Shape Their Interests

As an aunt/uncle, you have great power in moulding your niece/nephew’s personality and interests. Encourage and support him/her.

Take them out for a hobby or nature trail. Don’t be someone who comes home with a high-end smartphone for kids to explore because the child should love you, not your possessions.

“Adults, say uncles and aunts, must use their power in moulding kids with utmost responsibility because for kids it’s the age that forms the foundation of their being,” says Somya Batta, who’s part of an NGO that works with kids.

4) Give Thoughtful Gifts

If you want to shower your love on your niece/nephew, then gifting is a great gesture.

Be somebody who gets thoughtful gifts for kids—books, sports equipment, science games, funky accessories, or school stationery.

Check with their parents if there’s something that the kids want that makes for a meaningful gift. Psychologists agree that expensive gifts or fast food aren’t a way to win their love.

As an aunt/uncle, you are part of the family. So think of things you would want to do with your own child when you’re with your niece/nephew.

5) Be One Of Them

Kids love to play and have someone who can do things as per their wish. While parents may be too busy, aunts/uncles can be fun people to be around.

“I love spending time with my niece and nephew. I play games with them, have tea with their dolls, draw cats and animals, and do cool stuff. In return I get pure love and uncountable kisses,” says Udaibir Singh, a media professional from Mumbai.

“They like me because I can be a kid and a grown-up at the same time who takes them out for ice cream!” he added.

6) Follow Parents’ Rules

Fulfill their wishes, do mad things but don’t break the discipline rules your siblings have set for their kids.

If parents want you not to offer them junk food, or maintain their bedtime respect their wishes. Of course, you can take them out for films and playtime, but keep in mind their home rules.

7) Offer To Babysit

BabysitAs aunt/uncle, you can spend good amount of time with your nephew/niece and also give their parents a break.

Be ready to take care of kids when your siblings have some urgent work or an office party to attend. After all, you’re family and kids will be happy to be with you, without an overlooking parent.

Plan your time well and do something special in this exclusive time.

8) Always Keep Your Promises

If you cannot promise, don’t promise. It isn’t cool to make a promise to a child and later forget about it. Remember, kids will not forget.

They are sensitive and have an impressionable mind. So don’t hurt their feelings, or shake their trust. If you have promised to buy them comic books, or take them for a superhero film, do it.

Even parents will not want their kids to be around a forgetful and careless aunts/uncles.

9) Remember Important Dates

Besides birthdays, try to be with your nephew/niece on his/her important days like sports day, annual day, karate championship, etc. and perhaps, her doll’s birthday!

Witness his/her performance, planning, and joy. Always praise them for their efforts. Give kudos to your little niece/nephew for small achievements. Give him/her a reason to smile.

“My niece is the happiest when I take time out to attend her school events,” says Nisha Sharma, a proud aunt to a 4-year-old.

10) Be In Touch

Keep the relationship going on even as the kid grows up. Visit or call often. Don’t wait for a reason or special occasion to be with your nephew/niece. He is the reason, show your love for him/her. Be an awesome Uncle or Aunt!

11) Provide Emotional Support

Many kids just need encouragement. You can encourage them to try out new things or to be more positive. They should know that they can depend on you if something happens, even if they don’t actually need your support.

So now you know how to bond with your niece/nephew, right?

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Do you have any ideas or tips for being a cool aunt/uncle? Then share them with us in the ‘Comments’ section! 

Image Credit: Philippe Put; Eli Duke

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Ekta Sharma Bhatnagar is a writer, dreamer, and a neat-freak mom constantly trying to keep pace with her fast-growing, tech-addict kids. A proud mother of two, she is a seasoned media professional and a self-confessed Bollywood buff. Ekta has written extensively on Entertainment, Careers, Lifestyle, Interiors, and Parenting for Indiatimes.com, Education Times, Economic Times, Mumbai Mirror, Times Property, other publications and corporate websites. Follow on Twitter @ektabhatnagar

1 Comment

  • Max

    May 5, 2017 - 9:10 pm

    This is a great way to be an uncle or aunty. I’ll try doing this with my nephew. My uncle Philipo is an awesome uncle and I’ll use him as a role model to be a great uncle: I’ll be truthful, kind, and selfless to make my nephew love me.

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